Should I trust my wife to go on vacation with an old ex boyfriend?
My wife and I dated and lived together for 3 years, and have been married for 3 years and have a 2 year old child. We’re both in our early to mid 30s- my wife is 34 and I’m 32.
I’ve taken about 3 golf trips per year, and golf at least once every 2 weeks, while my wife watches our child.
My wife recently told me she wanted to take a trip to get away for a few days- as I do. However, she is a teacher, so she’s limited to the days she can take during the year (she teaches throughout the year). She is planning a 5 day vacation with her ex boyfriend. She has told me that nothing sexual will happen, and would cancel her vacation (she hasn’t scheduled it yet, just planning it) if I didn’t trust her. They are staying the same 1 bedroom condo, but it has 2 beds. I’ve checked out the condo on-line and it does offer a couch in the living room and looks very nice. So they are saving money—we surely coulnd’t afford air fare and a 2 bedroom apartment- this is supposed to be a cheap vacation getaway!!!
She doesn’t have any girlfriends that are close to her at her school, or that can get off when she can- she’s going during spring break.
My wife has been life long friends with this guy, dated him on and off again, and then dated him seriously for about 2 years right before we were married, They have remained in close contact with each other because they have been friends for such a long time. I haven’t objected to their friendship- they talked while we were dating, engaged and he lives hundreds of miles away from us now; however, he has gone through a divorce and is single right now.
I’m going to let her go and trust her. Am I a fool?
I’ve never questioned my wife’s fidelity or love to me…
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